(02-23-2025, 03:35 AM)gorzek Wrote: You mean you've never been diagnosed? I've always got big autism vibes from you. Fellow autist here. 😛
ROTFLL!!!!
I mentioned this to a friend irl today and they were like "uhh yeah?" fffuuck
(02-23-2025, 04:00 AM)FrodoSwaggins Wrote: I don't have an autism diagnosis, however, if I'm not neurospicy then shit science really needs to change the definition for a few of those conditions. Tldr an autism diagnosis absolutely would be predictive of the challenges I face in my human experience week to week.I just don't want to be like "I'm on the spectrum" and then turn out not to be and like... claiming something that isn't true and get a bad rep for it...
I think the value for you is to explore what perspectives and contexts best exemplify your human experience week to week. As an adult, I wouldn't let a lack of formal diagnosis gatekeep you from identifying as on the spectrum.
its dumb. anxiety is dumb.
and also, if I am on the spectrum, does that mean I'm entitled to accommodations? what would those be? what am I allowed to have when I've been doing "fine" without them for 40 yrs? (except I haven't I just never realized how miserable the office makes me until after I got to WFH for a few years and it was better) and what if actually getting diagnosed just makes things _worse_ because now I've got it on paper that I'm "disabled" and I can be discriminated against because current politics are allowing that.
i fucking hate anxiety